To Pick or Not To Pick- The Revamped Squeeze Ball

Today, I received another fun email from my son’s school.  The complaint is that he is picking his skin.  The teacher then follows up with “if he picks again tomorrow and it bleeds, we will have to remove him from class.”  Really, I wanted to reply, “DID YOU CALL THE OT (Occupational Therapist) and discuss another solution to picking?”  I didn’t  say these exact words because I am trying to pick my battles.
Instead,  I sat down with my husband and reviewed the email.  We discussed how we wanted to approach this with Nolan.  My husband had a great idea.  He suggested that we have Nolan come up with the solution.  So, we called Nolan into the office.  Nolan’s immediate response is, “Did I do something wrong?”  When Nolan says this it always makes me a little sad.  When he asked us if he was in trouble, we told him, “No, we need your help with something.”  We asked him where his squeeze ball was located.  We talked to him calmly about the many reasons why picking his skin is not healthy.  He said he needed to do something with his hands,  He said he stopped using the squeeze ball because he might start playing with it.  Then, we asked him how could we solve this situation.  Nolan came up with a brilliant solution.  He said he would use the squeeze ball if he could have a something attached to it so that it would not fall out of his hand when he squeezed it. Nolan thought of putting the ball into a mesh bag.  He could then slide his hand into the bag and squeeze the ball.  He said his biggest concern is that the squeeze ball will fly out of his hand and he will get in trouble. 

This gave my husband some ideas for revamping the squeeze ball. The first attempt was some string tied around the ball.  That didn’t work.  Every time he squeezed the ball, the string feel off.   So, we decided to put the project down and walk the dog. We needed to look at this differently.  We had an “AH HA!!!” moment.  We realized we could make a small hole at the top part of the nylon covering and insert and string.  The string looped into the top part which fits around the wrist.  The string is long enough to fit around Nolan’s hand. Now, Nolan can squeeze away. 

I have no idea if it will work. The most important piece is that Nico had a say in how to stop his picking.  In fact without his input the new and improved squeeze ball would not have seen the light of day. 

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I am Marie. I am a proud mom of Aspieteen. I am an educator in the public school system. I have seen and expierenced many school districts not meeting the needs on students with IEPs. This is frustrating to me as an educator and as a parent. Districts and schools seem to focus on the money and feelings of teachers rather than what is best for the student to be successful. Sometimes, I will share the interesting information I have found via tweeting and blogging. Then, other times, I will share my own personal experience at a parent with an exceptional teenager.

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